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Is the thought of doing a live or video interview causing you anxiety? If you’re feeling nervous about an upcoming interview, these expert tips can help you relax—so you make the best possible first impression.
Calm your interview nerves.
Interview anxiety happens when a person experiences elevated levels of worry relating to an upcoming interview. While it’s wonderful you’ve been offered an interview, that positive news is often accompanied by a wave of anxiety.
You may have applied for a new job, asked for a promotion, or applied for admission into an educational or professional development program.
Your interview may take place in-person, via video interviewing (pre-recorded or live), or on the telephone. No matter what type of interview you’re about to participate in, nerves can wash over you, shaking your much-needed confidence.
Since everyone experiences stress differently, interview anxiety can take many forms. Symptoms can be physical, physiological, mental, emotional, or some combination.
Tension in the neck and shoulders
Flushed face
Racing heart
Dry mouth
Upset stomach
Clenched jaw
Sweaty palms
Shaky voice
Let us reassure you that interview nerves are 100% normal. Nearly everyone experiences them.
93% of people feel anxiety related to job interviews.
There are many reasons why people get pre-interview nerves. The most common reason is that you really want to ace the interview. You’re nervous because you want to make the best first impression, and that’s totally understandable!
Interview anxiety stems from the pressure to perform well. The more you want to succeed, the more nervousness you may feel. Unsurprisingly, these feelings are tied to performance anxiety. Whenever we face the possibility of rejection, our interview nerves can soar.
Another common scenario when anxiety may pop up is when you’re interviewing for a new job while you’re still employed. You may be fearful that your current employer will find out, or nervous about having to ask for time off work to accommodate the interview.
One solution? Ask the recruiter if there’s an option for a pre-recorded video interview. This allows you the flexibility to record answers to interview questions whenever and wherever you feel most comfortable. This simple scheduling convenience can help reduce your stress.
While interview anxiety typically hits applicants the hardest, even interviewers may experience this phenomenon. Depending on hiring expectations, deadlines, and other professional (and personal) circumstances, recruiters and hiring managers can feel nervous, too.
This is especially true for those early in their career, but even seasoned professionals who’ve been interviewing most of their lives sometimes get nervous. We’re all human and experience a wide-range of perfectly normal feelings.
"Interviewers understand you’re going to be nervous, so don’t be scared if it shows a bit. It means you care and want the position. To help get your nerves under control, practice your answers out loud as much as possible beforehand! Practice really does help."
Cassandra Thompson
Career strategist & speaker, Cass Thompson Career & Business ConsultingSince everyone experiences anxiety differently, some strategies tend to be more effective in calming interview nerves than others. What works best will depend on your unique personality and situation.
Some people are naturally more resilient to stress, or they’ve already developed effective coping mechanisms to keep their worries at bay.
Other people (especially those who are new to interviewing) will need to devote more time to de-stress before their interview.
Common strategies to calm your interview anxiety include:
We encourage you to experiment with different stress-busting techniques to find a combination of strategies that helps you feel most at ease.
In order to perform at your peak during your interview, you need to take care of yourself. That means tending to your most basic needs: sleep, movement, and nutrition.
Stress and sleep are closely related. If you’re stressed out about an upcoming interview, you might lose sleep worrying about it. And when you don’t get enough sleep, your anxiety can reach new heights.
It’s easy to fall into a vicious cycle of sleep deprivation that can sap our energy levels and brain power when we need them most.
7-9 Hours
Most adults need seven to nine hours of sleep to function at their best.
If you’re experiencing stress-related insomnia, pay attention to your daytime routine. Is it time to ditch that afternoon caffeine fix? It’s likely hindering your sleep patterns.
If you usually go to bed late at night, try slipping into the sheets an hour or so earlier than you typically would.
Other sleep tips include establishing a new, relaxing bedtime routine, and rolling out a “screen-free” rule for your bedroom. Blue wavelengths from your phone close to bedtime are proven to negatively affect sleep.
A word of caution: avoid sleeping too much, as well. Oversleeping is a common (and often unconscious) attempt to avoid dealing with anxiety. This stress reaction stems from self-protection, but ultimately does not serve your best interests. Try to get out of bed and address your worries head on.
The night before your scheduled interview, go to bed nice and early, increasing your chances of being well-rested the next day. Make sure you don’t oversleep and miss it! Double-check the volume of your alarm, and that you’ve set the correct time (e.g. A.M. vs. P.M.). Allocate yourself a little extra time in the morning to prepare one last time.
Our bodies need rest and movement. Exercise helps us release pent-up nervous energy.
It releases feel-good endorphins, and cleans up mental cobwebs so we can think more clearly. Exercise is a no-brainer when it comes to improving our overall health and stress management to beat interview nerves.
Optimal health calls for a mix of aerobic and strength training exercises.* Aim for muscle-strengthening activities two or more days a week, and couple that with aerobic activity several times per week.
The amount of time needed depends on the intensity of the workout, but as a general rule, aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate physical activity most days (except during illness or injury).
150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity per week
75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity per week
A combination of moderate and vigorous activity
*Consult with your doctor if you have concerns before beginning any exercise program.
Going for a walk outside is especially effective in reducing pre-interview nerves.
Why? In addition to exercise, you can get fresh air and your daily dose of vitamin D, which lifts your mood. Depending on the weather and where you live, a nature hike can do wonders to help clear your head and pacify negative emotions. Just make sure you leave enough time to look presentable for your interview afterward.
Food is fuel! What we eat and drink influences how we feel both physically and mentally. It’s common for people to either overeat or undereat because of stress. Proper, balanced nutrition plays an important role in managing your interview-related nerves.
33% of adults overeat or eat unhealthy foods because it helps distract them from stress.
30% of adults report skipping a meal due to stress (either no appetite or no time).
When you’re stressed, it can be tempting to reach for heavy, calorically-dense foods. These high-carbohydrate “comfort foods” (like macaroni and cheese) tend to leave people feeling temporarily satisfied, but then bloated and tired.
For this reason, avoid eating a big meal before your interview. That said, it’s not wise to go into an interview on a completely empty stomach either. You don’t want to be light-headed struggling to hear your thoughts over your growling stomach.
On the day of your interview, have a well-balanced, healthy breakfast. It really is the most important meal of the day! If your interview isn’t until later in the day, you should also plan to eat a light lunch or snack. Check your teeth in the mirror after you’ve eaten to ensure your smile is interview ready.
If you usually drink coffee, have one on interview day. If you drink too much, your heart will race, intensifying your anxiety. If you try to quit caffeine on the morning of your interview, you may experience withdrawal symptoms.
And while we’re talking drinks: hopefully this goes without saying, but it’s never a good idea to have an alcoholic drink before an interview, even if you think it will “relax” you.
Now let’s talk about headspace. Getting in a good frame of mind is critical for interview success. But our desire to succeed can introduce disproportionate worry. Our imaginations are very good at dreaming up all sorts of “worst case scenarios” and “what ifs” that aren’t likely to occur.
While it’s easy to jump to conclusions and catastrophize things, try to catch your negative thinking when it arises and challenge unfair assumptions. Focus on positive, encouraging self-talk instead.
As your video interview approaches, remember that you’ve been asked to attend because you show potential. Stay in good spirits and prepare as much as you can. Remember, your interviewers want to meet you!
Want to know the #1 tip for overcoming interview anxiety? It’s being prepared!
Proper preparation helps you feel more sure of yourself, so you can radiate confidence during your interview.
When you’re asked to interview for a position, we encourage you to put on your detective hat and research everything you can about the employer.
Who are the key players within the organization? What are the company’s mission, vision, and values? What products or services do they offer, and who’s their target audience?
While you’re certainly not expected to know everything about an employer, most interviewers expect you to have done your homework. Arm yourself with knowledge, and experience the many benefits.
"You can generally find the name of the hiring manager by searching for a position title + XYZ company on LinkedIn. Once you’ve found them, look for commonalities in career trajectory, professional associations, or hobbies and use this information to spark a connection. I wouldn’t recommend sending a friend request on social networks like Facebook just yet since you don’t want to overstep. Always proceed with caution."
Along with pre-interview research, there are other ways you can get ready. Prepare everything you may need for your interview no later than the night before your interview (ideally, well in advance).
For example, choose a professional outfit that you’ll feel good wearing. This will save you time the morning of your interview, so you can focus instead on creating a stellar first impression
A copy of your resume and/or CV, and job description
Pen and paper (a small notebook is best; don’t bring loose sheets of paper that can easily be misplaced or fall out of order)
Depending on the position, your portfolio or writing samples
Name and contact information for one-three references
If you’ve been invited to a digital interview, don’t fret! You can learn absolutely everything you need to prepare yourself for success with these video interview tips.
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We’ve discussed many tactics people use to calm their interview nerves.
Here are even more strategies for anyone with interview anxiety:
Reduce the magnitude of the event in your mind
While your interview is obviously important, sometimes it’s helpful to think of it in a different light. Think of the interview as just an exciting chance to chat and meet new people. This easy-going approach to interviewing can help you relax to perform well.
Try a power pose
A power pose is a stance where you keep your head held high and your chest lifted with your arms either outstretched or firmly on your hips—like a superhero might stand! Did you know that power poses can decrease your cortisol (the stress hormone) levels by up to 25%?
Breathe!
When you’re anxious, your breathing tends to be short and shallow. Breathe in for a count of four, hold for two, and breathe out for another count of four.
Journal
Writing down your thoughts can help get your worries out of your head.
Take a shower or bath
When the water runs, imagine your worries wash away.
Consult with a career coach
Some people find working one-on-one with a professional to be helpful in addressing specific questions and unique challenges.
Medication
Anti-anxiety medication may be prescribed to help patients manage their overall mental health. To explore this option, talk with your doctor.
Now let’s talk about the anxious feelings you may have after your interview.
Once your long-awaited interview has wrapped up and that initial rush of having it behind you fades, doubt and worry may creep in. You start to wonder if you could’ve answered a particular question better, or you think of a brilliant work example you forget to mention during the interview.
Deep breath in, deep breath out. It’s over. For better or worse, the interview is now in life’s rearview mirror. You cannot go back in time and change how it went. What you can do now is wait to hear back (and send a professional thank you message to the interviewers).
Tom Petty said it best: “the waiting is the hardest part.”
To squash anxiety during this time, be sure you ask about next steps in the hiring process during your interview. Understand timelines and be patient. Apply the tips you’ve learned, and add anything new you learned from this experience. You’re more resilient than you might think, and other opportunities await— possibly ones that would be a better fit for you!
Interviewing for a job (especially one you really want) can be stressful. We’re all likely to experience a bit of pre-interview nerves, but a certain amount of stress can actually be helpful.
Try reframing your nervous energy as excited energy, and use the adrenaline to push yourself to be your best during your interview.
Take proactive steps to prepare and get in a good frame of mind before your interview, you’ll increase your likelihood of a successful interview. So the next time pesky nerves bubble up within you, remember: You’ve got this!
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Prepare thoroughly. Study the company, review common interview questions, and practice your answers. Mock interviews can help you become more comfortable with speaking about your skills. Remind yourself of your strengths, experiences, and qualifications. Finally, replace negative thoughts with positive ones—they can be as simple as “I am well prepared.”
Pause and breathe. It’s okay to take a moment to collect your thoughts if you feel overwhelmed. Concentrate on understanding the question and formulating a clear answer. If you’re unsure what a question means, ask for clarification. And focus on your strengths—envision success during the interview.
Focusing on things outside of your control (like wondering if the interviewer is judging you) can amplify stress. Instead, redirect your energy toward what’s in your hands, like sending a follow-up thank you email. By recognizing and challenging negative thoughts, you can reframe them in a more rational and balanced way. Give yourself time to reflect on your performance.